Author: Tony Trott
There are sometimes when you are just not able to do something and you require help. Today was one of those days. A couple of our planters that are on our terrace were really starting to fall apart. I take full responsibility for this; they should not have been left unattended for many years in a row in all types of weather. Fortunately for us, my older
brother and sister-in-law are quite adept at all things garden related. As I said, “A couple of our planters [are] really starting to fall apart.” Sorry I don’t have pictures of them prior to the help I got but you may have noticed that they were falling apart in pictures or videos that we have used in previous newsletters.
I had spoken with my brother about then possibility of doing something to hold them together so that we’d be able to use them for maybe a year or so at which point we’d need to invest in replacement planters (which would be much better cared for, I promise!). He suggested using ratchet straps; something with which I was unfamiliar but as he explained them to me I understood how they would solve our problem, at least temporarily.

Essentially, the way they work is that they wrap completely around the planter and then the two ends are connected by a ratchet and then tightened with said ratchet. So basically, it pulls all four sides of the planter together and holds them in place by being tight. While it is not a long-term solution, it is definitely a short-term one.
Wrapping the strap around the planter was not something I would have been able to do myself, or at least not easily. To paraphrase Barack Obama, asking for help to complete a task that I could have done myself ten years ago, is not a sign of weakness but one that shows the courage to admit I don’t know everything and am willing to learn.

We planned this adventure months in advance because of our interest in the women’s suffragist movement and the added benefit that actress Jenna Bainbridge, who uses a wheelchair, was in the show. The production was fabulous, and we met Jenna afterwards. Icing on the cake. But the problem in between was the seating. Wheelchair seating is very limited, it is on the edges of the theater with limited view, and aisles are incredibly narrow. To move back for those in my aisle to get out meant that those behind me could not. To move forward so those behind me could get out, meant that those in my aisle could not. I thought I did everything right when I purchased tickets, but at the last minute we didn’t know if we could all see the show. (Luckily with lots of scrambling it all worked out, and don’t let this dissuade you from going to the show).
I want to see productions of all types. I have an expectation that I can obtain a seat that is accessible, comfortable, and purchased through a seamless process. After this latest experience, I’m realizing that going to the theater is now another research project. First, who is the right person to contact before I purchase my tickets? How do I determine that my seat will give me a good view and a companion will be next to me? Will there be enough room where I sit? Can individuals easily navigate around my power chair? And will all go smoothly after I’ve double checked every aspect of the visit and I arrive at the show?
I decided to attend with a good friend, figuring it would be a fun outing. What I didn’t expect was a spectacular day. By that, I mean the weather, and this might be selling it short, it was glorious! I know that for the most part the weather lately has been totally crazy; so, it wouldn’t have shocked me had it snowed in the first half and been shorts weather in the second.
Even had I been totally aware of the forecast, I would be grateful. The weather is not something I can control, indeed nobody really can. Everybody has their own way to be thankful and their own ideas about who to be thankful to. We’re all different, but in my view we’re more alike whether we have a disability or not. It’s tough to top an unexpected glorious day. I’ll take it as a win. We all should when we get to enjoy a beautiful day.